From: Faith, Pri 6, Nanyang Primary School
If I were in Libby’s shoes, I would reach out to Talia. I know how it is like to be ostracised by others. Talia might be feeling hurt and sad by Dustin’s meanness but doesn’t have anyone to confide in. Once, I was bullied by my classmate. He called me mean names and every day, I went home crying. Every morning, I refused to get dressed and go to school because I did not want to face that classmate. I suffered from bullying until this other classmate reached out to me. She knew that I was being subjected to bullying and so she made friends with me. She comforted me and I felt better right away. Having friends by your side helps in many ways.
Also, if I were Libby and if I were scared of Dustin, I should tell the teacher. Teachers are trained to help and teach children and youth, so they have a lot of experience in dealing with these kind of situations. I am sure that if Libby approaches the teacher, the teacher will definitely try his or her best to stop Dustin.
Actually, the best way to help Talia is to encourage her to muster up the courage to fend for herself. Libby can write short post-it notes to Talia, telling her that she is on her side, as well as encouraging Talia to fight for herself. When Talia manages to defend herself and the bullying stops, Talia will gain self-confidence. The next time, she will not easily be subjected to such bullying again.
As the saying goes, “No man is an island,” Libby should try to befriend Talia, so Talia would not feel so ostracised. Libby should also encourage Talia to stand up for what is right. If all these still do not work, Libby should bring Talia to consult the teacher or school counsellor.