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A difficult choice

From: Rui Xin, Pri 5, Tao Nan School

If I were in Milou’s shoes, I would put my plans on hold and go to Egbert’s help, as Egbert is my good friend. He had supported me in running away and always had my back. Furthermore, I do not know where my parents are! I am sure they would be proud of me if I saved my friend. I will give up my precious time for my friend. Goodness knows what Mr Rotman is doing to him! We left as group of five, we shall reach my parents as a group of five. Leave no man — or child —behind!

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From: Caryn, Pri 4, Meridian Primary School

If I were in Milou’s shoes, I would rescue Egbert, because I cherish my friendship with him. I would put my cherished plans on hold and go to Egbert’s help, so we can go together to find my parents. This is because he was always there with me and helped me escape from Mr Rotman. I would also give up on my plans now and help my friend first. When everyone is safe, we can then all go together to find my parents.

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From: Angel, Pri 4, St Anthony’s Canossian Primary School

If I were Milou, I would help save Egbert because Milou would not have been so close in finding her parents without her friend’s help. Even though they did not have any parents, they were always there to comfort each other because they were like family. They chose to follow Milou rather than to let her go all by herself. They had helped her during the most difficult times of her life. Her friends were always there to help her. Now Egbert needs her help and if I were Milou, I would do anything to help him.

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From: Priyal, Pri 4, Qihua Primary School

Dear Milou,

      I think that you should go to Egbert’s help, even though you have to cancel your cherished plans to find your parents.

      Mostly, people say that friends and family are both important. But, we should see the situation first and should understand who we should help first. In my opinion, now your friend, Egbert, comes first. Why? Okay, let us look at the situations. First, you know that your father’s name is Bram Poppenmaker and it is good that you know the geographical coordinates to your parents’ home. But there are many other things you might not know about them. For example, what they look like, whether they are alive or not, will they recognise you, will they accept you as their child, etc. Did you think about these questions? However, you know a lot about Egbert and even more than your other mates Lotta, Fenna, and Sem. Moreover, except for you, no one knows where Egbert has been taken to by the villainous Mr Rotman. I think he needs you urgently, Milou! You are his only hope!

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From: Vivienne, Pri 5, Northoaks Primary School

If I were in Milou ‘s shoes, I would not put my cherished plans on hold and go to Egbert’s help. Instead, I would ask all of my friends to look for Egbert and leave me behind as I really want to find my parents. If I were Milou, I would do this as I do not want Mr Rotman to get hold of my best friend Egbert. On the other hand, I would still like to fulfil my long-awaited dream, as I would be filled with curiosity to know more about my parents! In a nutshell, I will make this decision as I want to find my parents and help Egbert as much as I can. After this, I might even get a chance to see my friends again after I found my parents.

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When clues seem to lead nowhere

From: Wan Ilhan Effendi, Pri 6, Meridian Primary School

Dear Nell,

I know you are worried about your French nanny, Pear. Please do not give up. If the challenge of finding Pear gets harder, try your best. In my opinion, you should look back at the old letters Pear had sent you. Pear may have hidden clues in those letters. If not, here is my advice. You should ask your parents for help. Do not be scared to ask them. No matter how busy your parents are, they will try their best to attend to you. Your parents might know where and when Pear moved. Back when I was Primary 2, I did not know how to do my homework. I asked my parents and teachers for help. Over a period of time, I got better. If a challenge was in my way, I would try my best to overcome it. As for now, you need to have hope. You need to have hope to find your French nanny, Pear. I myself still need help if I do not know how to do my work. From my sister, my parents, even my teachers. We all are trying. Trying to follow our dream. I hope that you can find Pear soon. All the best!

Yours faithfully,
Wan Ilhan

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From: Nova, Pri 6, Bukit View Primary School

Dear Nell,

Don’t give up hope in finding Pear! Finding Pear should be more important than enjoying the sights of Venice. If Pear had left six months ago and did not say a word to you, it means that she is trying to hide something from you. If I were you, I would continue to find more clues about where Pear had moved to from her neighbours. I would also ask the new tenants of Pear’s old house for some information on where Pear could have moved to. If the house were not occupied, I would search the house for some notes Pear could have left behind. If I were lucky enough, I might find a diary that belonged to Pear that could have been forgotten while she was moving. I also suggest going to the police station and asking about her. Maybe the police could look at her records and track the location of her new home. Lastly, go to a place with many people of Pear’s age. Maybe Pear made some friends there and told them where she was going to move to. I hope this was of some help to you. Good luck finding Pear!

Best wishes,
Nova 

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From: Aniqah Falisha, Pri 4, Woodlands Primary School.

If I were in Nell’s shoes, I would probably print a picture of my nanny and I would bring the picture with me around the neighbourhood and ask different people if they had seen my nanny. I would also ask the police for help to find my nanny. But, if that did not work, I would probably have to tell my parents everything that had happened. If my nanny came back and continued sending me letters, I would be super-duper happy, but I would want to ask her what happened and where she had gone.

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From: Tricia, Pri 5, Punggol Green Primary School

Dear Nell,

I am writing to tell you what I think you could do when looking for your nanny, Pear, in Paris. You should not give up finding Pear. You had met a boy and his sister who lived in the same block of flats with Pear before she moved out. You could go back and ask them where Pear had moved to. Since Pear had left her cat with them, it is obvious that she trusts them, so they should know where Pear is moving to. You can find Pear once you know where Pear is living. 

Because your parents want you to go with them to Venice, I think you can tell them that you are looking for Pear. If they believe you, they might let you continue looking for Pear while they go to Venice. Your parents may think that since you are in Paris alone, you might as well do something. I believe that you would rather find Pear than enjoy the sights in Venice. In your letters, Pear had described her life in detail, so she may have mentioned where she would like to go, where she likes shopping, where she will hang out with her friends, and many others. Maybe you can find her at these locations. Or if your parents are willing to help, you can ask them for more information about Pear that will help you to find her.

I hope that some of the information that I have provided for you will help you in your mission to find Pear. Pear must be kind of busy since she is not writing letters to you. Do not give up, and do not let anyone discourage you. I am sure you will find Pear and find the reason why she has not been sending letters to you.

Yours sincerely, 
Tricia

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From: Zhi Yu, Pri 5, Nan Hua Primary School.

Personally, I think that Nell should stay. How could Pear leave her cat in the care of two children if she were not in Paris? Also, what if the woman at the grand atelier was lying? If I were Nell, I would look for Pear in Paris and not follow my parents to Venice. Afterall, Nell had promised that she would take care of herself at the hotel. If she stayed, both her parents and Nell would benefit. Nell would be able to look for Pear to see what was wrong, while her parents could work in peace without her tagging along in Venice. 

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The courage to make a change

From: Zenith, Pri 6, Kheng Cheng School

Dear Amal,

I think you should admit the information that you found to the Police. I think that in the Police’s point of view, they would be grateful to you for the evidence given because the Police can arrest the culprit and prevent other crimes by the Khans from happening. When they arrest Jawad Sahib, they might also find out about the Khans capturing you and you may set free. If you don’t admit such important information, the Police might not be able to arrest Jawad Sahib and you will just get yourself captured for a longer period of time.

                 This situation is similar to bullying. When you are being bullied, you need to have the courage to report to a teacher immediately, even if the bully tells you not to. If not, this just gives the bully the advantage of bullying you more. Sometimes, you need to stand up for what is right even if you are alone or scared. So, Amal, will you do the right thing?

Regards,
Zenith

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From: Trisha, Pri 5, Bukit View Primary

Dear Amal,

Do not be so scared of those ruthless Khans! I guess you are puzzled and shaken after you heard the horrifying news. I know you might be scared that the next attack can be on you if the Khans are assassins. Am I right? 

That day, even when you saw the big car of Jawad Sahib, you did not get scared and did not walk away. You stood firm! So, why chicken out now? In a game, if you cannot score, you have to think of a better strategy and tackle the other player. Trying is the way to success. You have to give them a fitting reply for their actions. I have faith in you and know you are capable. 

You and your slave friends can secretly find evidence in the rooms of the Khans when all are on household duty. As a precaution, you can always signal each other by a code song. I am sure you can find proof in the Khans’ rooms to support your testimony. When you find the evidence, go straight to police station and hand it over. Soon, this will reach out to the world and Khans will be in trouble. 

Do you want to tolerate this in silence like a coward or do something and stand up for yourself? This is a well-wisher and a friend encouraging you here. 

From,
Your well-wisher.

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From: Janice, Pri 4, CHIJ Our Lady of the Nativity

Dear Amal,

If I were in your shoes, I would give the information to the police. However, I would be careful about it because I would be risking my own safety. I would find an excuse to go out, to buy groceries, perhaps. While I was out, I would go to the nearest police station and give them the information, and then do whatever my excuse was for going out. I am prepared to risk my own safety to save my family. Do not be scared, Amal. I am sure you would want to save your family, the people in your village, and of course, yourself from the ruthless Khans. I hope that you can give the information to the police, too. Please think about what I have said. I wish you all the best!

Your friend,
Janice

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From: Zahra, Pri 5, Methodist Girl’s School

Dear Amal, 

  I hope you are fine and coping well. If I were in your shoes, I would tell the police the truth. I would give the police that piece of information that they are desperately looking for. You must be on the side of truth so that appropriate actions can be taken against the evil Khan family. Telling the truth is the right thing to do. I would also make sure that justice is served for the victim’s family. Doing so will ensure that no one else will ever become a victim of the murderer. In addition, you will also provide the closure the victim’s family desperately needs. 

Zahra

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From: Dilton, Pri 6, Tao Nan School

If I were in Amal’s shoes, there are many things that I could do. Here is a list that I have carefully thought about:

1. I would purchase a bottle of sleeping medicine from a merchant when I head to the supermarket to get groceries. During dinner time, I would add drops of the sleeping medicine into Jawad Sahib’s meal. After dinner, he should feel drowsy and soon fall into a deep slumber. Immediately, I would drag Jawad Sahib with all my might into a vacant storeroom and double-lock the metal door. Then, I would tie him to a chair with thick ropes. After Jawad Sahib had woken up, I would inform him that I knew crucial information about him that would make the police’s job easier. I would threaten to tip off the police unless he let me return to my family.

2. I would first inform Jawad Sahib that I knew crucial information about him. Then, I would strike a deal with him. We could join forces, but he would have to treat me like his queen or else I would have to tip the police off. If Jawad Sahib agreed, I would have to start Phase 2. Whenever the authorities came to the Khans’ mansion for inspection, I would deny every statement or question they would ask me. I would also request Jawad Sahib for money and bribe Nabila and Fatima never to let the cat out of the bag no matter how hard the authorities tried to pressure them. After the police have finally put up the white flag and closed the case of Jawad Sahib, I would live a better life.

3. I would immediately inform the police about the crucial information. Then, I would hire a professional locksmith to duplicate a key to the Khan family’s vault. After Jawad Sahib has been taken into custody by the police, I would secretly open the Khan’s vault in the middle of the night. I would stuff as much money as my hands could grab into a duffle bag. After that, I would wake Nabila and Fatima and tell them about my plan. Together, we would fly to the Bahamas with the Khans’ money and start a new life.

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How to handle our anger better

From: Aiden, Primary 4, St Gabriel’s Primary School

Dear Archie,

I know how it feels when you lose a game. We should not get upset over a game. After all, when you lose a game, that is where learning starts. Losing a game is no big deal. But how we lose and how we have changed because of the game makes us grow. Winning is not everything. What is the point of winning a game but losing something precious like friendship? It is important to play a game fairly. Put yourself in others’ shoes, you will know how they feel.

So, let me tell you what you should do when you lose a game. When you are angry, take deep breaths slowly but calmly. If you want to win, you need to master that particular game so that you can win. When you lose, do not throw the playset. Hold your rage!

I was told that you felt angry and embarrassed about the class party. I am very sure your mother did not mean to cause that to happen. She felt sorry and guilty for not preparing snacks for the class. Mother might have a lot of household matters to attend to and missed out your request. Just an advice for you: the night before the class party, you could remind your mother so it would not happen again.

Right now, you need the “quiet power” to overcome your anger. I am also trying to practise the “Power of Discipline”, so that I can change my attitude, not to give up easily whenever I face difficulties. Let’s try our best to improve ourselves. When there is a will, there’s a way. We will make it!

Your friend,
Aiden

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From: Denise, Primary 5, Canberra Primary School

Dear Archie,

It’s ok to lose at games. You can always play a second time. If you don’t win, there’s no need to lose your temper. As for the class party, if your parents didn’t pack food for you, that’s okay. You can offer some entertainment and you could be the Game Master. That means you get to be in charge of all the games, so you don’t have to lose any of them!

Please think about what I have said.

Best wishes,
Denise

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From: Avner, Primary 4, St Andrew’s Junior School

Dear Archie,

I heard that you were struggling with managing your anger outbursts. I used to have the same problem as you, whereby I would become very frustrated and angry whenever I failed to achieve my goals. After some trial and error, I found that the following steps worked for me:

1. Take deep breaths and exhale slowly. Repeat this for 10 times.

2. Think of something that makes you happy. For me, I would imagine myself watching a movie and eating popcorn in a cinema.

3. Sing your favourite song in your heart.

One more thing, getting enough sleep will also help us to be in a better mood and to be less triggered. Give it a try and see if these methods work for you too. I wish you all the best!

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From: Zhi Kang, Primary 6, Wellington Primary School

Hi Archie,

When you play with your friends and you lose, I don’t think you should be angry. Instead take the chance to gain experience. Either way, if you win or lose, it is just a game and I think that what is important is to have fun while playing. So, if you want your friends to play with you again, I suggest that you go and apologise. And, if you are angry again, you can breathe in and out or have a moment to cool down and not throw things or hit the wall, as it is dangerous for you and your friends.

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From: Beth, Primary 5, Tao Nan School

Dear Archie,

I know that you have been having trouble controlling your anger. Here are some tips to help control it!

1. Whenever you feel angry, you can talk to your parent or guardian, or someone you trust about it.

2. If you feel like screaming, take deep breaths and count to ten.

3. If you have a diary, you can write down your thoughts and feelings. Writing them down helps calm you down. Even if you don’t have a diary, you can start one. Maybe you can call it “My Book of Thoughts and Feelings”.

4. Go for a walk. People may say that going for walks is tiring, and others say that it is healthy. But, going for walks can calm you down. Try it! When you are done, you will be surprised at the results.

I hope these four tips help.

Yours sincerely,
Beth

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Saving the Peruvian Rainforest

From: Fion, Pri 4, Woodlands Primary School

Dear Dad,

I have found out that you are working with bad people. I feel sad but I know that you are being forced to harm the forest. You cannot destroy the forest because it is important to our lives.

The forest belongs to every living things like people, animals, and plants. Some animals have been living in the forest for very long. When Dad destroys the forest, we will get less oxygen too. I want my father to stop working with the bad people.

Love,
Maya

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From: Aiden, Pri 4, St Gabriel’s Primary School

Dearest Dad,

You might be wondering where I am now. I am safe, please do not worry about me. Last night, I met two strangers. The woman said that you wanted them to bring me home. I doubted her words, so I ran out of the lodge and went to the forest. Unfortunately, as I tried to escape, I fell down and hurt my ankle. I was not able to move around. I was afraid that I would be caught by the two strangers. I did not know what happened throughout the night but when I woke up the next morning, I found my legs covered with some herbs. I believe it was Matias who helped me.

Matias is my new friend. He knows what is going on and Dad, you are in danger! Please do not believe the two strangers. You are helping them to plunder the forest! There is a saying, “Respect the forest, and the forest will respect you”. The Peruvian forest is the haven of flora and fauna. There are many precious animals such as Andean Cock-of-the-Rock and Spectacled Bear that can only be found in the Peruvian rainforest. Plundering them might give you a big fortune but it will never give you peace. I hope you understand logging and plundering the forest will not help the future. Make the right choice. Whatever happens, I will always love you.

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Loving a new brother

From: Azraa, Pri 6, Qihua Primary School

Dear Aleena,

I am really sorry your bond between you and your brother is not what you expected it to be. I have a brother too. Although younger brothers can be annoying and mess up your life sometimes, they really are there when needed. So, do not be worried that your brother might spoil your party because as you grow up, it is going to be your brother who will stick by your side no matter what.

Your friend,
Azraa

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From: Klara, Pri 5, Anchor Green Primary School

Dear Aleena,

How are you? I hope you are feeling good. I heard about your problem with your new little brother. I would like to give you some friendly advice.

Firstly, you should know that your little brother is only three years old. He is also new there and it might take time for him to adjust. Secondly, during your birthday party, you should let Hakeem play with you. I am sure your friends will love playing with him! Do not worry if he does something wrong during your party. Try to make it into something good!

I hope you will be able to bond with Hakeem during the party! Have fun!

Cheers,
Klara

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From: Guanzhe, Pri 5, Bukit View Primary School

Dear Aleena,

How are you? I hope you are doing fine. I am writing to advise you on what you should do with your little brother, Hakeem. I think you should play with your friends and Hakeem at the same time! Birthday parties are meant to be fun after all, and your friends seem to like him. It would probably make everyone much happier. Besides, if Hakeem decides to do something mischievous, you and your friends can take care of him together. Please keep this suggestion in mind. Have a nice day!

Your friend,      
Guanzhe

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From: Nova, Pri 6, Bukit View Primary School

I think Aleena should let Hakeem bask in the attention of her friends but not let him go too close to anything that could cause a mess.  She could have a party game that involves playing with Hakeem as her friends think he is cute. If Aleena feels jealous as it is her birthday party, then she could gently pick her baby brother up and make an excuse to her friends about Hakeem needing to be fed at the time.

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From: Soumika, Pri 5, Farrer Park Primary School

Dear Aleena,

I would like to give you some advice on your new brother, Hakeem, and I sincerely hope my advice will be of some help to you.

Firstly, you have to remember that siblings are not playthings. They are not things you play with when you are happy or when you feel in the mood. They are more like pets: they can be cuddly and cute, but we have to take care of them. You can neither expect Hakeem to be perfect, nor expect that you won’t have to help him or teach him certain things.

Secondly, you have to learn to keep certain things away from Hakeem if you do not want them to be meddled with. Other than keeping things away from Hakeem, you have to learn to share things with him as well. He might want certain things he does not have, and it is certainly not his fault if he turns to you for resources or toys.

Thirdly, if Hakim is your sibling and you were the one to willingly say you would share a roof with him, you cannot expect him not to come to your birthday party. He is taking time to express his love, but I am almost certain that he would be happy for you.

Lastly, if something happened, such as the Lego or slime incident, your instinctive thought should be whether Hakim was injured or hurt. It should not be disappointing that your things are affected, as your brother is worth more than that.

Of course, I am not trying to reprimand you, as I do not intend to, nor am I in that place to do so. Being a sibling is always a challenging, testing, difficult, and important role. It will take time to get used to it. I am just trying to give you advice. I hope being a sibling will slowly reveal its rewards to you!

Yours truly,
Soumika

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A Rescue Mission

From: Aiden, Pri 3, Tao Nan School

Dear Jamie,

Please bring with you a robot which can protect you from the sun and the hostile environment. Take a deep breath! Pack enough food and clothes for your mission. Bring along a charger for your phone so you can be in touch with your family on Earth. Think positive and you will come back to earth with your father soon. Please remember to take some photos.

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From: Lohith, Pri 6, Telok Kurau Primary School           

Hi Jamie,

Be brave. Do not worry that your father is trapped in space. Look on the bright side — your father would be known all over the world as a brave hero.

I advise you to head down to NASA, with your mum and sister, to find out what actually happened and what the situation is. If everything is okay, try to make contact with your father. If it’s not possible, try to stay calm until you know what to do next. Going to space by yourself may not be an appropriate thing to do. Be calm, brave, and be a good support to your mum and sister. Stay positive and everything will end well. Keep up the spirit, Jamie.

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When friendships change

From: Le Yi, Qifa Primary

Dear Delsie,
I think you should be yourself. You should find time to tell Brandy your feelings. I believe telling Brandy directly that you feel hurt, sad, and angry is the right thing to do. Afterwards, just act normal. You do not need to continue pretending to be someone you are not, or be mean to Brandy and Tressa.  If Brandy is not willing to be friends with you, then you should find some new friends to hang out with or spend time together with your family.

From: Xun Hui, Hougang Secondary

Dear Delsie,
I’m sorry to hear that you and your best friend have been drifting apart. Don’t despair. This probably signifies that it’s time for you to enlarge your circle of friends and explore new areas of interest. Keep your choices open when making new friends and exploring new interests. Don’t constrain yourself to what you’re used to and soon you’ll realise that every cloud has a silver lining.

Your friend,
XH

From: Rachael, Raffles Girls School (Secondary)

Dear Delsie,
I know you feel kind of puzzled over how Brandy has changed. I had also felt puzzled when the same thing happened to me. I used to have a childhood friend who enjoyed doing activities with me, such as reading books and playing at the school playground. But, as we grew up, she started liking activities which I found no interest in, such as window shopping and chatting over fancy food. I felt really sad, especially when she also started hanging out with another friend who enjoyed doing activities she liked. Eventually, I felt left out, just like how you feel now. I decided to talk to her about it. We decided to do some activities together which we both enjoy and some activities which we may not commonly like.

You can also do something similar. If you want, ask Brandy if you can spend some time together. Talk about what you can do together. But, remember, the most important thing about friendships is that you should be yourself with your friends. You should never try to act or be someone you are not. Everyone is unique, and friends always accept the faults in each other. If Brandy cannot accept that you do not like the same stuff as she does, then maybe she may not be your real friend. Either way, remember to be yourself and know that friends sometimes have arguments and disagreements. Be strong. Remember that true friends, without fail, accept you for who you are.

Best wishes,
Rachael

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Albie’s Quest

From: Ju Jiu, Pri 5, Northoaks Primary School

Hey Albie,
I heard that you lost your mother to cancer recently. I experienced losing my grandfather to cancer, too. If you think that there is a parallel universe, you can go ahead and try to visit, but I do not think that there is a parallel universe. Although I had lost my Grandfather to cancer, I still put him in my heart. Your mother does not need to be here physically, but you could just remember her in your heart.

From: Reanne, Pri 5, Seng Kang Primary School

Dear Albie,
I’m very sorry for your loss. If I were you, I would definitely feel devastated. I would think,” What had she done in her past lives to make her deserve all of this? Why did she have to leave me alone at such a young age?” But, I just want to let you know that there are still many happy things in life. There is still your father who loves you very much. I’m sure he suffered as much pain and grief as you. I’m also glad that not all hope is lost in you. I really look up to you because I would be afraid of the dangers in the other worlds. You are strong and brave. So, never let your fears bring you down! I hope that one day, even if you don’t find your mother, you will use your strengths to help those who have lost a loved one too, based on your own experience.

Best regards,
Reanne

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Sisters through thick and thin

From: Xun Hui, Pri 6, Rosyth School

A boy and his domestic helper were already in the lift as my mother and I were about to step in. What was etched on my mind was that his uniform was sewn with four letters “AWWA”.

The boy helped to hold the lift. He then asked, “Which floor? “

“Five”, my mother and I answered in unison.

The boy then counted, “1,2,3,4,5” before pressing “5” for us.  When we got out of the lift, I asked my mother what AWWA was. My mother explained that AWWA was a school for students with special needs. She also added that, from the boy’s appearance, she could tell that he had mild intellectual disability. This really surprised me. All this while, I had thought that people with disabilities were those we had to hold the lift for, and not the other way around. “These Abled” people can do wonders, sometimes!

From: Dhriti, Pri 5, Changkat Primary

Being friends with someone with a disability isn’t something that should be different or special. It should be the same as being friends with anyone else. Because in so many ways, it is the same. I have a friend whose sister suffers from cerebral palsy. She is not your ordinary 5-year-old. She can’t walk or talk but she tries her best. Her mum is a supermum who is constantly striving hard to give her a beautiful life. Despite knowing that she suffers from cerebral palsy, she hasn’t given up on her. A few years ago, her mum brought her to India for therapy. Now her legs are more stable. She can stand with her mum holding her. Every day, we meet at the playground. She plays with her 5-year-old friends. She tries her best to talk. Now, she can say a bye with a big hug.

It breaks my heart that people would overlook someone like her because she has a disability, that people wouldn’t consider her a friend because they think that she is different. She is the epitome of innocence and would always smile at people whom she recognises. She would wave at her friends and clap her hands to every tune that we hum. Maybe in that way, I am luckier than everyone else. Because, having had her as my friend for so long, I have seen the ways that people with disabilities are sometimes treated. They don’t always get treated like everyone else, but they don’t give up. My friend with cerebral palsy is more resilient than any normal girl. I would have given up long ago and sat in a wheelchair, but she has not. Being friends with her is a special friendship. And one that can last forever. She is just like us and wants to be treated like your average neighbourhood kid. She has taught me the best lessons on “resilience”. I am so proud to have met a strong little girl like her, who, despite all the odds, can give you a beautiful smile or an innocent giggle. As people say, some things cannot be bought. Her qualities belong to those priceless things.

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Elvis’ search for his real family

From: Nova, Pri 5, Bukit View Primary School

Dear Elvis,

When I was younger, I had a friend who was adopted. Her parents left her as they were not prepared to have a child yet. She spent two years at my school and left when her parents wanted her back. They could take care of a child who could now read and write. Dashi soon wrote back to me saying that her parents did not know how to care for a young child and thus put her up for adoption. Dashi is happy with her parents now.

Elvis, you mean everything to George.  Why do you think he gave you a triple-decker Oreo cake? Why did he give you his heirloom, the compass? He even quit his job to find your real parents! I suggest always talking to George about his favourite hobby. And, instead of rushing to find your parents, have some fun with George. Norway is a beautiful country. Go to places like the Viking Ship Museum or the Stavanger Cathedral. Spending time with him would definitely put him on cloud nine! Good luck with finding your parents!

Best regards,
Nova

From: Gladys, Pri 5, Seng Kang Primary

Dear Elvis,

How are you?

I think George feels really sad about you wanting to find your birth parents as he thinks that you may forget him after you have found them. I think that you can show George that you will always care about him by chatting with him regularly through letters, email, or by calling each other. You could even visit him during the school holidays every year so that George will not feel so lonely or forgotten. You could also give George a card or note to tell him how much you appreciate him for adopting you and taking care of you for the past twelve years. I am sure he will feel very appreciated and loved. I hope that you will heed my advice. I wish you the best of luck in finding your birth parents!

Best regards,
Gladys

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A difficult journey

From: Meiyu, Telok Kurau Primary

Dear Shura,

How are you? I know that you are having difficulty uncovering the depths of this mystery of who or what the Black Raven is and looking for your loved ones. I know that there are nasty people who scold and beat you. There are also kind ones who help you. But, I want you to remember that there are more good people than bad. That there are people along the way who will help you. I hope that you will stay strong and find your Mama, Bobka, and your Papa. I know that they must be somewhere out there waiting for you, hoping that you are safe. So, you must stay strong for them! Whenever you felt discouraged, tell this to yourself, “I can do it!”. But, never say “no”. Because if you give up, you will lose all hopes of finding your Mama, Papa, and Bobka. I know that you can do this, ok? So, let’s go and find your Mama, Papa and Bobka!

Best wishes,

Meiyu

From: An Li, Pri 6, Haig Girls’School

Dear Shura,

I am here to tell you something very important: “never ever give up”. Although the journey will be hard and perilous, it will have an end. I am very sure you will be able to find your parents if you persevere. Do not care about the nasty people who treat you badly, and do not take the people who are kind to you for granted. You also have your sister Tanya with you. Encourage each other and stay strong, Shura! Stay strong and never give up!

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Total mind control

From: John, Pri 6, Fuchun Primary 

Dear Chester,

I heard that you have a really cool mind jumping ability. You must be having a great time getting the upper hand over your sister when you revealed her secrets and having a good laugh at the sight of the stranger’s look of disgust when he saw the candy floss on his hands. However, your powers should not just be used to get even with your sister or to prank strangers.

Do you know what tremendous power your mind jumping ability has to offer? You can do so much good or evil depending on how you use it.  For example, if you mind jumped into the mind of a serial killer, you could foil his cruel plans and save the lives of innocent people.  But if you use it to find out the exam questions, that would be cheating, and a higher level of cheating would be if you used your powers to get insider information to make tons of money at the stock market.

As a Spiderman fan, I advise you, “With great power comes great responsibilities.” That’s why I’m urging you to moderate your use of your powers. Use it only if it benefits others.  You have the power to protect others. Use it well, my friend.

Regards,

John

From: Rhea, Pri 5, Tanjong Katong Primary 

Dear Chester,

I dearly wish I had a power like you! Do remember that with great power comes great responsibility. Do not take advantage of your power. You may get to know something that you are not supposed to know. What if a friend that you trusted was spreading rumours about you and didn’t want you to know? On the other hand though, if you want to use your power for good, do it! Something good might be helping the police to tell if a suspect is lying or not! Do learn to differentiate good and bad things to do.

Your friend,

Rhea

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Clara learns to help

From: Joanne, Pri 6, Nanyang Primary

At home, I would cook my own meals whenever I am hungry. Normally, I would cook some instant noodles. They are easy to make and are filling. I still remember once when my mother was resting, and I did not want to wake her up although I was hungry. In the end, I cooked my own noodles just as I had seen my brother do before. It was really thrilling as that was the first time, I cooked my own food. When I finished successfully cooking my own meal, the delicious smell wafted through the air and my mother smelt it. She woke up and looked for the source of the smell. When I told her that I had cooked my own noodle, she praised me for being a mature girl but also warned me on the importance of observing safety whenever I was in the kitchen. I then shared the scrumptious noodle with my mother, and I was so proud of myself for cooking my own noodle instead of troubling my mother.

If I were Clara, I would try to make friends with the people in the village. If I was lucky, there might be a kind villager who was willing to take me in. After that, I would look for a job as a cook or a teacher. These jobs can allow me to have better skills. Although I know how to cook potatoes and eggs, learning how to cook other types of food might be useful to me in the future. Being a teacher, I might be able to broaden my knowledge as I would have access to books. With knowledge and the ability to read, it would be easier to find a job if need be in the future. This way, I would also be able to get enough money for food. If I can save enough money, I might be able to rent a room and not have to worry about not having a roof over my head.

 From: Joe, Pri 5, Tanjong Katong Primary 

To help myself at home, I will cook some simple food like eggs or make sandwiches if I am as hungry as a beggar. I will not ask anyone for help if the task I need to complete is supposed to be mine, the responsible party. Cleaning my own room, preparing my own food or school bag and doing my homework are some things that I must do by myself. In school, I will do my work independently and always ask my teacher for concepts I cannot understand only when that question is very hard. If I were Clara in The Secret Starling, I would think that Uncle is irresponsible as he does not want to take care of her anymore. It seems like he wants to live alone from that moment on. If I were Clara, I would find help from government institutions who take care of orphans and abandoned children.

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Little Badman saves the school

From: Jasmin, Pri 5, Bukit View Primary School

Dear Mr Offalbox,

I need to speak to you about a very serious matter. As you know, all my teachers are affected by horrible diseases. And aunties from the neighbourhood are coming to replace them. But, I discovered the truth behind this. I was listening to Mr Turnbull’s track for my rap in the library today. And, Mrs Farooqi the substitute librarian was arranging books on the shelves nearby. Suddenly, she opened her mouth wide. Very wide. I immediately pulled off my headphones and ran out of the library. That was when I realised that the school is under attack!

I want to tell you my suspicions about the substitute teachers. They are always feeding us with sweet, sugary, and fried food. Even my aunty was offering me some gulab jamun! I have no idea why this is happening, but I am surely going to get to the bottom of this!

I think I am the only one who knows about this attack on our school. It is my duty to save the school because I care for my school and I am part of the school. I should play my part and bring the school out of danger.

Right now, you are the only person I can trust. I am really scared and I hope you will take this seriously. Please help me save the school!

Best regards,

Humza Arshad

From: Claire, Pri 5, Haig Girls’ School

Dear Mr Offalbox,

Have you been wondering why all the teachers have suddenly taken ill? Well, I have some serious suspicions. I suspect that all the substitute teachers (a.k.a cheerful aunties feeding us sugary, fried sweets) are monsters! Terrible, terrible monsters! Will you please help me and Umer to rid the school of these monsters? I feel that it is my duty to save the school as this is like my second home. I really cannot stand it if it were taken over by monsters.

And, wouldn’t you be suffering as well? All these monsters will take over your position as principal of this school! You’d be jobless, sad, and totally helpless as the monsters turn your school into a prison! I promise you that Umer and I will work hard to save our school. All you have to do is to support us because, well, who is going to listen to a couple of school kids talking about monsters? But, people will listen to you because you’re the principal.

Please take this plea seriously because time is running out. We have to get rid of the monsters before they take over our school!

Sincerely,

Humza and Umer

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The power of friendship

From: Ryan, Pri 5, Tanjong Katong Primary

Hello Darius,

I’ve seen you being bullied and teased by our classmates. You are also alone during recess. I know how it feels like as I have gone through a period like this when I was in Primary 2. The other kids never invited me to play with them and I was often called “fish”. I wrote this note to show that someone cares for you. Can we hang out during recess? Please write back soon.

From: Nikita, Pri 6, Tanjong Katong Primary

Dear Darius,

This is Nikita. I noticed that during recess, you are often alone and frequently bullied. Many people (including me☺) often feel sad or get bullied a whole lot. The important thing is that you don’t let it get to you. If you think about it, nobody who is really, truly happy would do anything to harm someone or cause them discomfort. So, the bullies are probably insecure. Teasing someone because of their race, skin colour, or shape is just wrong. They are just trying to get to you and make you feel bad. You can’t show them that they hurt you. You are strong, brave, smart, kind, funny, and awesome! If they don’t get that, then they are not worth your time and attention.

I’m going to tell you a little secret of mine. Whenever I feel insecure or self-conscious, I just repeat a special rhyme and I feel all better. The rhyme is: “Twinkle twinkle little star, what a mighty force you are!” I will be here if you want to talk☺. Those who judge will never understand and those who understand will never judge. Let your smile change them, don’t let them change your smile, Darius. Be brave, I know you can. Here’s a fact: The bullies don’t dislike you. In fact, they dislike themselves because you are a reflection of what they wish to be. Kind, brave☺, strong. Always be positive! You are in charge of how you feel. Choose happiness!

Love,

Your friend forever,

Nikita

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Facing off lions

From: Adithya, Pri 5, Concord Primary School

Hello Abela,

It’s me, your friend. I know that you have been through a lot. You were orphaned in your native Tanzania, when your mother died from an illness. Then your cunning uncle tricked you and your grandmother Bibi. You were brought to London illegally and sold to a rich family to do work. Just think that your obstacles are lions, and remember what your father said, “Look big and stern and wave your stick at them. Then scream your head off! You will see the the lion running away.”

The problem will run away if you show your resilience. Always remember that your mother told you to be a strong girl. My advice to you is to make the best of the situation. Forget the past and live in the present.

From: Xun Hui, Pri 5, Rosyth School

Dear Abela,

I’m sorry to hear what happened to your village and family. You need to stand strong and be a pillar of strength to your little sister. Life is like the ever-changing sky…sometimes rainy, sometimes sunny, and sometimes cloudy. Dark or bright, calm or chaotic, tomorrow will be a new day…

Your friend,

Amelalia

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A safe harbour

From: Khoh Na Eun, Pri 4, Teck Ghee Primary School

When I need a listening ear, I go to my mother. She knows how I feel and will always stand up for me. I know that she cares for me in every situation. My mother makes me feel better as she fights for me. For example, if I get bullied in school, she will stand up for me and take steps to make me feel better.

From: Parnika Mardane, Pri 5, East Coast Primary School

I always go to my best friend, Mei Ru, to share my problems with her. She is always there when I need a listening ear. I can always trust her as she keeps my secrets and my feelings confidential. We never fight as we trust each other more than anyone else. I just feel that a burden is released off my shoulder when I share my feelings or thoughts with her. She is very caring and thoughtful.

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Uncommon Kindness

From: Kayden Kong De Yi, Pri 3, Tao Nan School

“Have you seen my husband?” Mrs Tan asked my mother and me anxiously. When we told her that we had not, she looked terribly disappointed. She then explained to us that she and her husband had been shopping together. When she turned around, her husband was gone!

My mother then explained to me that Mr Tan was about ninety- five years old. He moved around on an electronic wheel chair and had difficulty remembering things. Then, I understood why Mrs Tan had looked so worried. I felt very sorry for her because she could not find her husband. While waiting for Mrs Tan’s son to come, I chit-chatted with her and assured her that her husband would be alright. I also gave Mrs Tan some water to drink.

It was past my bedtime when Mrs Tan’s son finally came to our house. I got permission from my mother to stay up late to keep Mrs Tan company. At around eleven o’ clock, Mrs Tan’s husband finally returned home all by himself, unharmed. When they saw each other, she ran towards him and gave him a bear hug. I immediately hugged Mother because I felt touched. My mother was proud of my act of kindness towards the elderly couple.

From: Tee Shi Jie, Woodlands Primary School

When I was in Primary 1 to Primary 3, there was a boy who would always bully me. On Games Day when I was in Primary 4, my classmates and I played against the other classes. To my shock, the bully was one of my opponents. During the game, he fell down. I ran to him and helped him up. I noticed that he had bruised his arm. So, I brought him to the bench where the substitutes were sitting. After the game ended, I brought him to the General Office. He thanked me profusely. He never bullied me anymore after that, and we became best friends.

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dIFFERENT, AND UNAFRAID OF LIVING

From: Myat Thin Thin, Pri 6, Woodlands Ring Primary

“Treat others the way you want to be treated.” I bet everyone has come across this phrase at least once. Would you like it if someone were to call you names and try to bring your self-esteem down? Would you like it if you were left out while everyone else is having fun and enjoying themselves? Would you like it if someone were to point out and exaggerate on your every flaw constantly? Do you know how all these could emotionally hurt one terribly? Sure, some people may not and that’s because they have not experienced it themselves. So, here is my side of the story. Hopefully, you will be able to empathise.

Since young, I had always been an introvert but to be honest, I did not really enjoy being one. I never had the courage to reach out to anyone. Everyone found me boring. I was the only one who was of a different race from everyone else. No one would bother to invite me to their parties. I was always left out of games such as basketball and badminton. My teachers always remarked that I should speak up more and that I should not keep to myself. This went on until I turned eleven and went to a new class. There, people knew how to accept others.

In the two years that I have been in this class, I finally know what being part of a class feels like. My classmates know of my existence. They would reach out to me without a second thought whenever I need help. I was invited to many parties as well! I was not treated like a nobody. Today, I am a courageous and strong person. I would not be writing this story if not for all my classmates and friends who have been with me these two years.

From: Alanis Neo Jia Rui, Pri 4, Qifa Primary

When I was in kindergarten, I was bigger and heavier than the other children. Whenever I came to school, my classmates would say, “Are you getting rounder? It seems you are a fatty!” I felt hurt by their mean comments. However, I remained silent and tried to be kind to them, hoping that they would stop picking on me. To my dismay, they continued to bully me. Then one day, the class had a mini “Show and Tell”. The teacher said we could talk about anything we liked. Immediately, my hand shot up, and the teacher called on me to speak. “I may be bigger than the rest of you. However, I think that we should all be treated as equals. We should all try to respect each other and our differences. Finally, we should not bully each other,” I said. There was a moment of silence. I stared at my classmates. Did they disagree? They erupted into an applause. I finally felt that I was accepted by the others. After this, I made some friends. They apologised to me and I forgave them.

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Starting over

From: Thiri Thazin Tun, Pri 6, Pei Tong Primary School

When I was Primary 1 or 2, I was a hot-tempered girl. I was sensitive about everything. I had a classmate whom I did not like, because he made fun of me and made me cry.

One day, I was taking a stroll at the school basketball court. Coincidentally, that boy was there too. He had laughed at me, I have forgotten why. Something inside me snapped. I rushed forward, and headbutted him hard in his side. Before he could react, I swung my arm and my palm hit his face with a loud slap. Time came to a standstill as everyone watching gaped. Back in class, the teacher was informed of the whole incident. My classmate’s friends all crowded around him, consoling him as tears ran down his cheeks. I handed him a piece of tissue paper, but I still felt bad.

I was upset. My ego was destroyed, my reputation was tarnished… From then on, everyone would identify me as the tomboy who daringly slapped a boy. I grew more silent day by day. However, I knew I had the potential to do something good. Something that would show the school that I can be a competent and strong leader. I wanted to prove that my temper would not stand in the way!

I have made up with my classmate and now we are okay with each other. Now, at Primary 6, I look at the many badges and certificates I have earned as a model student, prefect, and assistant head prefect. I knew I had the potential. I have proven to everyone that I can be a leader. I am not perfect, but I strive to improve. I had successfully started over.

 From: Kimaya Devang Bhuta, Pri 6, Tanjong Katong Primary School

I was learning how to perform stage combat at acting class one day. It was quite tricky pretending to throw punches, slaps, and kicks with just your movements and your voice without hurting your partner or fellow actor. When my mentor called my best friend and me up, I was excited to try out stage combat with my friend. However, things quickly went downhill when I accidentally whacked my friend. After this incident, my friend avoided me. I was so heartbroken that I could not forgive myself. Upon reaching home, I recounted the story to my parents. They told me to improve my stage combat skills so that at the next class, I could show my friend that I could do it properly, and that I had learnt from the experience.

At the next acting class, I was able to perform stage combat better than anyone else. My parents’ advice had been spot-on. My friend knows I will not hit her again, as I have mastered the art of stage combat. After that incident, I understood why we all need someone to stand by us!

 

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A better future

From: Eaindra Khin, Pri 6, West Grove Primary School

My dream is to become an English teacher when I grow up. English is my favourite subject. I love reading and learning new vocabulary. What is so interesting about English to me is that there are so many ways to describe something or someone. I love learning new grammar rules so that I can broaden my ways of writing. I also love teaching my classmates and sister. When I know that someone understands what I have explained to them, it makes me happy and satisfied.

I know I will enjoy teaching English as it is doing what I love. To be an English teacher, I will work towards building a strong foundation for myself in that language. I hope to overcome all the challenges that I will face. When I become a teacher, I will be able to teach my students that having a good heart is more important that having good brains. I will also make sure that my pupils enjoy learning English because that is what good teachers do — allowing and ensuring that every student of his or hers enjoys the process of learning!

From: Koh Xin Qin Megann, Pri 6, Maha Bodhi School

I have always dreamt of being an actress, as I really love movies. However, I have been really shy since a young age. It took me half a year to make new friends in my new class. Also, I have eczema, a skin condition which may not be so good for acting because most actresses have flawless skin. My brother, who is extroverted and the complete opposite of me, teases me because I am shy. Some of my classmates would point at my skin and loudly ask what was wrong.

As time went by, I started to think that I would never be able to achieve my dream of being an actress. But then, I read an inspiring story of a well-known actor. He had a hard childhood, but nevertheless he strove to do his best and never gave up, despite his weaknesses. In the end, his hard work paid off. He became a household name in the film industry. This story completely changed my perspective of myself.

Now, I walk confidently with my head high. I do not worry about people’s criticisms. I also plan to volunteer for school events such as debates and storytelling competitions, to help boost my confidence.

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Being your best self

From: Yang Ruimin, Pri 5, Nanyang Primary School

I think I am very lucky to have perfect, normal feet. Ada did not. Despite this, she could do so many more things and persevere, unlike some of us, who give up very easily. I also admire a man most of us may know: Nick Vujicic. Nick Vujicic had tetra-amelia syndrome, also known as phocomelia, causing him to be born with no arms or legs. Everyone in school taunted him because of this. He knew he was different from the rest, yet he overcame his limitations and now, he is a motivational speaker who talks to people about his life.  Like Nick, we can overcome our limitations, too!

From: Suryanni Sullivan, Pri 6, Nanyang Primary School

“There is a very good composition that I have chosen to read to you. This writer scored 34 marks out of 40,” my English teacher Mr Ng said. Everyone turned to Lucie, the best writer in class, thinking that it would be her. I looked up from the book I had been reading and sighed. There was no way that the writer would be me. I was a terrible writer. “Who is it?” several classmates asked eagerly. Mr Ng smiled and started the story, “Ring! The bell that signalled the end of school rang…I buried my head into his fur…ended up in the clinic…soon was recovering…” I lifted my head from my desk. That story sounded suspiciously like mine. “The writer is…Suryanni!” Mr Ng announced. I frowned and said,” Me? Why me?” Everyone laughed and clapped….

I still remember it as clearly as if it happened yesterday, even though it happened a year ago. I had felt so proud. Now, however, I was getting lower and lower marks, as low as 28! I wasn’t very happy. I felt that I could not write as well as before. My expectation of myself became lower. Even my friends started to notice the change in me. After they asked me about it, I finally revealed my difficulty to them. “I can’t score as well in compositions as before,” I said. “Who says you can’t? Writing is your talent! Of course, you can do it! Just try harder!” one of them said. I snorted but inside, I was grateful to her for her words of encouragement. Now, although I do not score as high a mark as 34, I believe that if I try, I can!

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Putting yourself in another’s shoes

From: Aw Ying Xiu, Sec 2, New Town Secondary School 

Once, I tried to be friends with another boy from my class who was really quiet. During recess, I went over to him and said, “Hi, would you want to be friends with me?” The boy kept quiet for a while, then talked to me in a rough tone saying, “What do you want?” I felt bad as I thought I had made him angry. For the next few days, I tried observing him and realised that whenever anyone talked to him, he would just shout at them. After some time, I felt that I should try again to be his friend.

So, during recess, I walked up to him and introduced myself before asking him if anything was wrong. He kept quiet before he replied me. He said, “I’m sorry that I shouted at you the last time. I have anger control problems as things aren’t going well at home. I don’t mind being your friend as long as you don’t get affected by my temper whenever I get frustrated or annoyed.”

Since that day, I have tried to put myself in his shoes. I realised that things were hard for him and he often did not know what to do. I decided to talk to him more often. He became more open and did not lose his temper as easily. I learnt that by putting myself in the other person’s shoes, I could appreciate what he was going through and from there, I was able to help him. I’m sure that if everyone learned to know how other people feel, this world would be a much better place.

From: Nur Maisarah, Pri 6, West Grove Primary

Whenever someone makes fun of another person, others would find it funny and laugh. When they laugh, the victim would also laugh along. However, you would never know what is behind the victim’s laugh. Whenever someone gets teased, I would tend to laugh with the others. However, all of this came to an end when it happened to me. When I got teased, I felt extremely embarrassed and hurt. Ever since then, I have tried to put myself in other people’s shoes to understand how they feel. Whenever someone gets teased or made fun of, I feel sorry for the person and instead of laughing, I will try to offer assistance.

From: Chua Jia Rong, Pri 6, West Grove Primary School

A waft of strong body odour filled the air as an old woman shuffled past the corridor. Her skin was wrinkled and dirt clung on to her fingernails. Everyone disliked her knobbly fingers and tattered clothes. Her hair was like a bird’s nest filled with flies and she had a bad temper. Her yells and screams echoed down the corridor. She was no other than the neighbour whom I loathed.

She was filthy, smelly, and grouchy, which made me dislike her. Whenever she walked past, children will throw stones and rubbish at her, yelling at her to leave. After reading the book review on Mockingbird, I decided to put myself in her shoes. Sadness and loneliness engulfed me. I imagined being unaccepted, ignored, and bullied. Little did I know that her relatives did not even bother to visit her and abandoned her on the streets, forcing her to find a home for herself. Guilt and regret washed over me, as I did not expect this. Deep down, I decided to treat her better.

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Shaking off labels

From: Suryanni Sullivan, Pri 6, Nanyang Primary School.

When I was in Primary 3, a teacher invited me to join the track and field team. My older brother was also in track and field in the same school. He was a good long and high jumper. I always looked up to him as he had won many medals and trophies. I thought that by joining track, I would be like him.

After a few weeks of track and field, I realised that I came in nearly last in most events. My brother and some of my team members called me “slowpoke” or “slow girl”. I remember nearly crying when I heard that. I decided to improve my running.

In Primary 4, I was chosen to enter a 4 by 100 metres relay. Thinking that this was my big chance to show everybody that I was not a slowpoke, I ran my best in the competition. Unfortunately for me, my team came in last. I started to lose confidence in myself and wondered if everybody was right. What if I really were slow? That thought kept coming to my mind.

In Primary 5, I was chosen to represent my house in the 600 metres event for Sport’s Day. When I came in 11th, I nearly lost hope. One of my friends, seeing me so discouraged, encouraged me. I began to train harder towards my goal of shaking off the “slowpoke” label and doing well in competitions.

This year, I participated in the 600 metres event and came in 5th! I was also chosen for two relay competitions. Although I am not the fastest runner, I feel like I’ve achieved something great. The important lesson I learned through the 3 years of training was to not let people’s words dishearten me. They called me names, and I proved them wrong. Whatever you do, don’t let people’s words hurt you!

From: Neveah Hor, Pri 5, Methodist Girls’ School

“You are such a loser. You can’t even do a handstand properly. I bet you’re the lousiest gymnast!” My friend would burst out in a guffaw and raise an eyebrow at me every time we have gymnastics training. Her hurtful words made me dread going for training sessions and discouraged me from trying to win an upcoming competition.

The new gymnastics coach made it worse for me. That coach was biased towards the better gymnasts. I kept getting ignored by the coach, even when I did certain steps that I felt were very impressive. I felt that I was being ditched in a corner.

However, I discovered my unique ability. I was the most flexible gymnast in the team. When the day of the competition arrived, I was confident. I knew I had to have faith in myself. My friends showed off their stunts. It was almost my turn to perform when my friend gave me nudge.

“Are you sure you will even pass the competition?” she asked. I ignored her and went on to try my best. I did not win that day, but I did well, and my coach was proud of me. I knew that as long as I try my best and not let my friend’s hurtful words control my feelings, I will not be like Ally who thought she was really “dumb”. Everyone has an ability. Everyone is special in their own way.

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Helping someone to fit in

From: Chin Yi Rou Natalie Pri 6, Nan Hua Primary

I know a friend who is like Auggie from Wonder. She is a new kid at our tuition centre, and she is from Malaysia. She is still trying to fit in, and always shares her thoughts with the class, but the class finds her annoying and no one likes her.

Whenever someone insults her, she just smiles at them, but I know she is very hurt by these insults. I try to ask my friends to stop but they do not listen. I will try to ask her to join our group discussions or ask her to join us for lunch. Then, hopefully, my friends will accept her, and not leave her out. If I hang out with her and I am called “weird”, I will ignore these comments or go up to them and tell them that they have no right to bully her, since they themselves were, at some point, the “new kids” who tried to fit in.

From: A’zizy Mui’zzuddin, Pri 5, Qihua Primary School

I think anyone, like Auggie Pullman, would want to be in a world where everyone would accept people who are different and special. They might be different but what makes them special is that they have big dreams. Dreams that they hope to achieve some day.

We can help people like Auggie in different ways. One way is to accept them for who they are. We can help them to see that there are people, like me, who care and respect them sincerely. That will make them feel more comfortable around others. Then, they will be able to make friends and appreciate that everyone is unique.

I would like to end with this quote: “Don’t criticize what you can’t understand. Don’t judge a book by its cover. You may miss out on a good story.” People like Auggie might be different, but they have big dreams and a big heart. These are the qualities that are more important than anything else.

From: Anandakannan Rezma, Pri 5, Woodlands Primary School

I still remember the day I met my new classmate in Primary 2. As I had gone to India for the holidays, I had missed the first day of school. When I went to school the following day, there was a new girl in my class.

She had finished her Primary 1 in a small village in India. Here in Singapore, it was very difficult for her to communicate with others, as she could not understand English. She was very shy and would not talk to others. I became her friend that day and we spent our recess together. Luckily, we turned out to be neighbours and we would walk home from school together.

I encouraged her to communicate in English. She then gained confidence and started talking to other classmates. She worked very hard and got good grades in her exams. Initially, she wanted to discontinue her studies here in Singapore. But now she is confident about continuing her studies here.

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Discovering a friend across the fence

From: Jeoshua Wang Wen Shan, Pri 6, Nanyang Primary

When I was 7 years old, I thought boys would be with boys and girls would be with girls. To me, it felt like we should not cross over the huge fence that separated the boys from the girls. Whoever crossed the huge fence would probably get teased for days, weeks, or even months. To sum it up, it was just a common human trait found among us – that of being biased.

When I finally turned 9 years old, my decision to seek out an unexpected source of help changed the way I looked at people. One day, when I was in Primary 3, I desperately needed help from my friends to further understand how the assumption method in Math worked. But, nobody was willing to help. I had no choice but to ask the girl sitting beside me, Sarah, for help. I did not want to, but I was glad I did. Little did I expect that she would be so caring and gentle. With her help, I finally understood the assumption method. From that day onwards, whenever I needed help on any math questions, or anything, I would ask Sarah. She would always be there to help me.

Eventually, our friendship started to blossom. However, I also hated it. I would always get teased that I had a crush on her. Sarah’s friends would also tease her. I started thinking whether I had made a huge mistake by being her friend, but it turned out that I had not. Whenever I needed help, I would still ask her, and vice versa. We would always be there for each other, and we did become close friends. We would look forward to seeing each other every morning, and the teasing slowly stopped too.

The school year came to an end, and the old me was gone for good. I stopped being biased, and tried to make sure I treated girls and boys the same. Unfortunately, Sarah and I were not placed in the same class for Primary 4, and we slowly drifted away from each other. I felt quite sad, but this important friend of mine had taught me a life lesson. I started to pluck up the courage to make friends with anybody, regardless of gender. I still get teased for it. But for me, it does not matter anymore. Boys may be playful, but not all boys are. Girls may be thought to be quiet, but not all girls are. I do hope that the fence between the two genders will be torn down one day.

From: Joanne Woon, Pri 5, Nanyang Primary

Every week, I attend Chinese Dance as a CCA, but I have hardly ever talked to this quiet girl. I have always thought that she was a shy and selfish girl. I had the impression that quiet girls are usually rude, so others do not talk to them. The first time I saw her, she somehow stood out to me, so I tried to greet her whenever we met.

Today, I plucked up my courage and went forward to her. “Hey, could we do our warm-up together?” I asked. She nodded her head and went to a corner to stretch.  “Yes!” I thought silently. I had taken the first step! It was really challenging having to think of how to approach her. As we stretched, I tried to break the awkward silence. “Hey, do you live near school? I do!” For the first time, she spoke up. “Yeah. I live near here.” I was amazed! I never thought that she would speak to me. From there, we started a conversation. By the time class started, we were chatting as though we were old friends!

During lessons, I thought back to how difficult it was for me to approach her, and how I had changed my opinion of her so quickly – from a selfish girl to a nice and caring girl. I am so glad that I got to know her and that she was willing to open up!  Plucking up the courage to talk to someone you never knew, or had a bad impression of, takes a lot of effort. I had also learnt to step up and be friendly! You can never judge a book by its cover!

Since then, I have been hanging out with my new friend a lot. I have realised that the more I get to know her, the more I learn from her experiences, such as the cultures of other countries she has been to. It is amazing how we can learn from each other by just taking that first step of getting to know someone!

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Speaking up for someone who is different

From: Gracia See En, Pri 5, Woodlands Ring Primary 

Everyone in the world deserves to be treated with respect. The way I show respect might be different from how others do it. I would first listen attentively to the person without interrupting and try to understand him or her. It is one way to start a conversation.

Most times, people have some trouble showing respect to shy people, the elderly, and people from other countries. I understand it is hard, but we should treat everyone with respect. Everyone is different, even twins! Therefore, treating everyone with respect is the best start!

From: Poh Si Jue Ashley, Pri 5, Telok Kurau Primary

I believe that everyone has value and should be treated with respect. I have a friend with a skin condition. She has big red patches of rashes all over her body. She has very few friends as many people are afraid of her and scared that her skin condition will spread to them. I have known her for many years and I know her condition is not infectious. I just treat her as an ordinary person, just like any one of us. She will always be my friend.

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A boy on a mission

From: Elizabeth Emilynn Quah Ling Ying, Pri 6, CHIJ Our Lady Of Good Counsel

After reading the book review on “See you in the cosmos, Carl Sagan” (August 2017 issue), I felt that Alex is an extraordinary boy. Why? It is because Alex, at the young age of eleven, is able to search for the right resources on the internet to enable him to build his very own rocket.

Furthermore, he knows how to save money by working to increase his savings. He also takes care of his mother and his dog, proving that he is excellent at multi-tasking. What’s more, he even knows how to cook! I am almost 12 years of age and I don’t even know how to cook, build a rocket, or care for a dog. Taking care of a dog is hard work and it costs money too.

Besides all this, Alex seems capable of taking care of himself too. I am doubtful that I can take care of myself alone without my parents’ help. Without their help, I must be able to provide a roof over my head and save money to buy my own food. It is a tough feat indeed.

Right now, my responsibilities at school are to ensure that my homework is handed in on time, obey the school rules, respect my teachers and classmates, and keep the school clean. At home, my responsibilities are to keep the house clean, obey the house rules, do my chores like washing the vegetables, sweeping the floor, and watering the plants. Compared to Alex, my responsibilities seem small.

After carrying out my responsibilities, I am happy to see that my home is clean and I have done my job well. This makes me happy. The sense of satisfaction is, in itself, my reward. It motivates me to carry out my responsibilities well. I am sure Alex feels the same way too.

I have absolute confidence that Alex would achieve his dream even though he is only 11 years old. Many people would look down on him and criticise him because of his age. I am sure that those people would definitely fail to deter him because Alex is motivated and he has perseverance. When a person has motivation and perseverance, he or she would be able to achieve anything that they set their minds to. Today’s children are very privileged to have parents to help them, unlike Alex. We should be appreciative of their love and care. Alex has to do almost everything by himself. So, let us be appreciative of what we have and never take anything for granted.

From: Koh Rui Xuan, Pri 4, Holy Innocents` Primary

At home, I take care of my terrapin, Timmy and do house chores every week. Timmy is a male terrapin and is really cute. I usually feed him at night and feed him a lot. That is how he grows really big. I wash his tank every week and do house chores every Saturday. I am in charge of mopping the floor. I also fold the clothes every day.

At school, I am a prefect. I do my duty during recess every day. As a prefect, I have to behave myself and be proactive. I guess the thing that motivates me is that I want to achieve many things and excel in what I do.